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# Vlog: The one about...designing your future life

 Wellbeing

 Vlog

 self care

 Altrincham

 Separation

 divorce

 1 minute read   
by Tamsin Caine

Tamsin speaks to divorce and business coach Helen Slater about how to start thinking about and designing your future life. She talks about some tools for goal setting and thinking about what you want from your life. One of my favourite ideas is about the stories you are telling yourself.

Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planer with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.

https://youtu.be/w-gtgoP4lSE

You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using **[https://calendly.com/tamsin-caine/15min](https://calendly.com/tamsin-caine/15min)**. She is also part of the team running **[Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UK](https://www.facebook.com/groups/469020344490906)**

Helen is a qualified business, life and relationship coach and a marketing expert with 20 years to show for it! She supports small business owners to build profitable online businesses she also supports those who want to start again in their life or heal after a relationship breakup.

Helen works with clients who are afraid that it is too late for them - those who want to start again, those who are stuck, or lost, those who feel like they are drowning - those who are simply unsure who they are any more and how to begin again.

Using NLP Coaching training and her 20 years of marketing experience, Helen teaches clients how to get to the core of the issue, so they can create an abundant life, move on after a hurtful break-up or build a successful business.

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