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Vlog Altrincham financialplanner Separation divorce 2 minute read by Tamsin Caine When you separate, whether you made the decision alone, you decided jointly or the decision was made by your spouse or partner, understanding where best to start is a minefield. In this episode, we speak to a panel of divorce professionals about the best place to start and what you can expect from each of them. ---     **Tom Nash** - aka Mr Divorce Coach, is an internationally certified Coach, specialising in Divorce, Separation & Family Coaching. He is a child of divorce, a divorcee himself, a father, step-father & successful co-parent of his own blended family. Tom works with men, women & couples, assisting in their emotional well-being, positive mindset and practical support through a clients divorce/separation.  Website: [https://mrdivorcecoach.co.uk/](https://mrdivorcecoach.co.uk/)  Instgram: [https://www.instagram.com/mrdivorcecoachuk/](https://www.instagram.com/mrdivorcecoachuk/)  LinkedIn: [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrdivorcecoach/](https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrdivorcecoach/)    --- **Sarah Birdsey** Sarah is a specialist family solicitor and managing director at Nicholls Solicitors.   Sarah has extensive experience in all areas of private family law and is a Resolution Accredited Specialist in family finances and child arrangements.  Sarah most commonly deals with divorce, financial relief and children matters.   Her cases on financial relief often involve complex business and foreign assets.   Sarah has good working relationships with specialist barristers, financial advisors and other experts to call upon their expertise where required.    Sarah is also regularly instructed in respect of pre and post nuptial agreements and cohabitation agreements.    Sarah has recently completed ‘what about Henry’ training with a clinical child psychologist to better understand how to support families and particularly children who are dealing with family separation.    Client’s and colleagues recognise Sarah’s personal, down to earth and sensitive approach but she is someone who is not afraid to fight for clients’ to ensure a fair outcome.  Sarah is regularly recommended and has built up strong reputation in the family law field.   @sarahlbirdsey (twitter) [Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100081468305246) [www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-birdsey-3180b21b4](https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-birdsey-3180b21b4/) @sbirdseysolicitor (Instagram) --- **Tamsin Caine** Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. 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